Showing posts with label Change. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Change. Show all posts

Tuesday, 3 October 2023

Wonders of autumn, a time for renewal.



(c) Harish Davda


Autumn is a time for renewal and transformation.

We may have to destroy to renew and transform.

For example: get rid of old clothes and buy new ones.

Clear your desk, drawers, office, rooms, garage, and the garden.

 

Drop bad habits and take on good ones,

it could be losing excess weight by eating healthy food,

giving up alcohol for a few weeks, start to write that book

which you always wanted to write, instead of procrastinating.

 

Autumn can bring changes some of which can last for a long time.

Along with writing goals, it is important to

work out the process of taking actions consistently.

 

A real change can only happen when you drop

your current personality and take on a new one.

You must also develop new beliefs.

This then helps to stay in the 'now'

and go into the future with confidence.




(c) Harish Davda 2023


Harish Davda works as an Enneagram and Conscious Business Coach and Trainer. He also leads an online Meditation Group. He can be contacted via email:
harish.davda@gmail.com

Facebook and Instagram: @harishdavdacoach


Wednesday, 1 April 2020

What is Covid 19 teaching us?




Photo: Harish Davda

Photo: Harish Davda

Photo: Harish Davda

If we can send a man to the moon,
and create miracles in science, arts,
engineering and medicine...surely,

we can prepare better for future viruses,
make sure that people do not go hungry
anywhere in the world... and everyone has
access to descent housing, water, health care and
education.

What Covid-19 is teaching us is to 'awaken'
ourselves, to reveal who we truly are, get
deep into our essence, become
selfless and reach out to those in need at
local, national and global level...because
we are all one!

Once we awaken, we will begin to change 
our broken economic, business, political
and financial systems for the benefit
of all. Not just for 1% of people who control
a high percentage of world's net wealth!

(c) Harish Davda 2020 - harish.davda@gmail.com

"If you want to change the world, you start with yourself."

- Mahatma Gandhi

Some statistics (before Covid 19 hit the world)

The world’s richest 1 percent, those with more than $1 million, own 44 percent of the world’s wealth. Their data also shows that adults with less than $10,000 in wealth make up 56.6 percent of the world’s population but hold less than 2 percent of global wealth.

Of the 822 million undernourished people in the world, 113 million face acute hunger meaning they are in urgent need of food and nutrients.

Approximately 3.1 million children die from undernutrition each year (UNICEF, 2018a). Hunger and undernutrition contribute to more than half of global child deaths, as undernutrition can make children more vulnerable to illness and exacerbate disease (UNICEF, 2018a).

“For the world’s hungry and undernourished people, climate change is an increasingly relevant threat multiplier”.

- Global Hunger Index.

Thursday, 20 February 2020

Power of discomfort





The first reaction to discomfort
is to run away from it, to feel safe.
Often, there is no safer place
than where you are now. Stay put. Observe.
Experience your power within.

If you recognise a pattern of over-eating,
observe yourself, see the effects on yourself.
Identify healthy choices. Take action gently
to become healthier, however discomforting.
Enjoy the results. Experience your power.

If you experience difficulties in a relationship,
at work, in business, with friends and family,
look beyond your conditioning.
Identify causes. Take a decision. Act.
Feel your discomfort. Experience your power.

Real power is what you do with yourself,
How you grow and change to who you really are.
People around you will then change
or leave you alone 'cause they are not ready.
Be the change. Experience your power.

Experiencing discomfort takes you deeper
into your inner self.  To connect to your essence.
Beyond the automaton-like behaviour.

That is where real freedom, liberation, is.
Buddha knew this. He experienced his power.

Finally, feel the fear, experience the discomfort,
Prepare, plan, take calculated risks.
Feel your adrenalin, do it. Experience your power,
For greater things to come in future...



The video above is a good example of how Simon and his friend Dave successfully completed their adventure and gained power from their fear and discomfort.

Video credit: Simon Riddell, Photographer.
www.simonriddell.co.uk




(c) Harish Davda 2020
harish.davda@gmail.com

Sunday, 2 February 2020

Observe...and grow!







This blog is not about Gautama Buddha or amazing views on Isle of sky  It is about observing, learning and growing.

In my long career as Management Development Trainer and Coach, I have always been interested in how people grow and create greater happiness for themselves and other people.

We all have habits, some of which we have formed for a long time. Some habits, eg, being tidy and organised, work for us. Other habits may be working against us...it can cause difficulties in our relationship with other people, it can even ruin our career or stop us in recognising new opportunities. 

So, what about observing ourselves? In your behaviour, begin to observe yourself. For example:

- do you get angry easily?
- are you controlling?
- do you listen to other people?
- do you talk too much?
- are you always competitive?
- do you aimlessly do things to get a buzz?

The next step is to observe what effect you are having on other people, and
yourself.

When you see and understand this, you will be motivated to change some of the behaviour which is dysfunctional. You will then begin to change your behaviour by changing your habits. For example, by listening more to other people, your relationship with other people will improve. You may even advance your career and get paid what you deserve.

It's amazing how your life changes when you change. You may access your 'inner world' beyond your ego. More on this in a new blog soon!

As Gandhi said,

Be the change you want to see in this world.

And, as Socrates said,

The secret of change is to focus all of your energy,
not on fighting the old but on building the new.

(c) Harish davda 2020

harish.davda@gmail.com
Instagram: @harish.davda