Always be your best

 

                                           Photo: (c) Harish Davda
You observe the light. You, the observer, depending on the quality of your observation merge with the light (the observed).

Photo (c) Harish Davda

                                                      To observe is to become part what we are observing

                                                                    (c) Clemencia Davda, Intuitive artist - Acrylics on canvas

                                                                 An artist's interpretation of my passage below

Be the best you can, and more,

in everything you do. 

Initially it is difficult because your mind is not trained. 

It may want an easy way out. 

When you are motivated to go beyond

your mind, you begin to see the result in

a short period of time. You become unconsciously competent. 

You can take this experience in everything you do to shine, 

to achieve excellence. 

The feeling of fulfilment then leads you to be your best in everything you do. 

It is beyond techniques. 

You become your work, your music, your art, 

and everything you do when in action. 

(c) Harish Davda - 2023

Harish Davda works as an Enneagram and Conscious Business Coach and Trainer. He also leads a an online Meditation Group. He can be contacted via email:

harish.davda@gmail.com

Facebook and Instagram: @harishdavdacoach

Observe...and grow!

This blog is not about Gautama Buddha or amazing views on Isle of sky  It is about observing, learning and growing.

In my long career as Management Development Trainer and Coach, I have always been interested in how people grow and create greater happiness for themselves and other people.

We all have habits, some of which we have formed for a long time. Some habits, eg, being tidy and organised, work for us. Other habits may be working against us...it can cause difficulties in our relationship with other people, it can even ruin our career or stop us in recognising new opportunities. 

So, what about observing ourselves? In your behaviour, begin to observe yourself. For example:

- do you get angry easily?

- are you controlling?

- do you listen to other people?

- do you talk too much?

- are you always competitive?
- do you aimlessly do things to get a buzz?

The next step is to observe what effect you are having on other people, and

yourself.

When you see and understand this, you will be motivated to change some of the behaviour which is dysfunctional. You will then begin to change your behaviour by changing your habits. For example, by listening more to other people, your relationship with other people will improve. You may even advance your career and get paid what you deserve.

It's amazing how your life changes when you change. You may access your 'inner world' beyond your ego. More on this in a new blog soon!

As Gandhi said,

Be the change you want to see in this world.

And, as Socrates said,

The secret of change is to focus all of your energy,
not on fighting the old but on building the new.

(c) Harish davda 2020

harish.davda@gmail.com
Instagram: @harish.davda